Odyssey Notes
Tales, Wisdom & Misadventures of Leading an Outrageously Courageous Life
Project Tents to Homes
Project Tents to Homes has begun! Ever since a major wind storm caused extensive damage at three of our micro-camps we have been working hard to upgrade these camps by converting the tents to stronger concrete homes.
This is by no means a small job, but thanks to World Challenge, Inc. we have been able to begin working on the first 25 homes. We still need an additional $80,000 to complete this critical upgrade in the next few weeks. Winter is just around the corner and snow has already been seen on one of the mountains within view of the camps.
I doesn't take much to provide a strong and safe home for a refugee family. Support our Tents to Homes project today!
To donate click on the following link: https://interland3.donorperfect.net/weblink/weblink.aspx…
Drum Roll Please For Our Big Announcement
Well folks, the moment to share our "Big News" has arrived. Drum roll please.....
Now you can make a real difference in the lives of refugees here in Northern Iraq. Visit www.SponsorARefugee.Com to learn how you can Build Communities of Hope in Northern Iraq.
#TheRefugeInitiative #WorldOrphans
Meet Tim: WO Staff Video
A few months ago World Orphans communications director, Nicole Leeper quizzed me on life in Northern Iraq and my role here as a part of the World Orphans team. Check it out if you have a couple minutes.
Gary & Kelly Wilkerson Visit with Bettina of World Challenge
Though it was brief, it was such a wonderful joy to host Gary and Kelly Wilkerson, along with Bettina from World Challenge. In the few hours that they were with us they poured out so much love on our family… encouraging us and supporting us. It was one of the great highlights of July.
Tim’s Birthday Bash
It was pool party time at our home in Soran to celebrate Tim’s birthday. What a great excuse to cool off and indulge in some of the finest chocolate brownie sundaes this side of Middle East.
Happy Birthday Tim!
Our latest Newsletter celebrating our first year in northern Iraq
Our latest eNewsletter is out and it's packed with stacks of updates, photos and stories from what has been a super busy Spring here in Northern Iraq. Click on the screenshot below for access to the Spring edition of the Buxton family adventures... If you haven't already, you can subscribe to get our eNewsletter and updates emailed directly to your inbox.
A Father's Worst Nightmare
It was bright and early when I got the phone call that the expansion to our Yezidi refugee camp in Rwandz was ready for the tents. We had a team staying with us from New York City - good friends from Times Square Church - and it didn't take much convincing to get the guys pumped for a bit of good ole' brute labor.
Buzzing from our morning coffee, the five of us loaded into the car and headed out to the camp - I had the feeling that today was going to be a good day!
We rolled into the camp around 9am with the sun already beating down on us with ferocious heat. Thankfully the heavy tent bags were already laid out on the ground evenly spaced in front of the concrete bathroom and kitchen facilities that had just been completed. A few minutes later a truck-load of Yezidi men and young boys showed up to lend a helping hand in putting up their new dwellings. This small camp was built to accommodate an additional ten larger Yezidi families that were not going to fit at our existing Yezidi camp in Rwandz.
It didn't take long for a little cross-cultural confusion to ensue surrounding how best to put up the tents. The main culprit being the fact that we spoke hardly any of the unique Kurdish dialect that Yezidis use, and their English was practically non-existent. You could safely say that it was a great learning experience for the team of guys from New York. I like to see these situations as a wonderful opportunity to hone my "charades" skills and develop a little more patience.
Much to our surprise things seemed to be going swimmingly when the Yezidi workforce took full control of the the tent assembly, leaving us with the opportunity to play a little soccer with the kids and take in the incredible scenery surrounding this camp.
I decided to wander over to one of the older Yezidi men who seemed to be visibly upset - his eyes peering off into the nearby mountains, welling up with tears. I was not quite sure what to do and I knew I didn't have the vocabulary to really ask what was on his mind. So I did all that I could do, I stood there beside him and placed my arm around his shoulders and silently looked up towards the same mountains.
The first tears began to roll down his cheek and it took everything within me to keep from choking up. Suddenly, he steps back and starts pulling at his chest and waving his hands across his neck, motioning a slit throat that could only mean one thing in this part of the world. I could barely process the amount of heartache he was trying to express to me. All I could say was "I'm so sorry" in my broken Kurdish.
Soon after, the work was complete. Ten new tents had been successfully put up, and the five of us had barely worked up a sweat - aside from the two guys that went off to play soccer with the Yezidi boys.
As we were saying our goodbyes I noticed that the elderly man was in our circle of conversation and so I asked my Kurdish friend to translate for me what the man was trying to convey to me just 30 minutes earlier.
The pain seemed to quickly reappear across the man's face as he explained again how ISIS had kidnapped more than a dozen women and young girls from their group whilst they were still at their home on Sinjar Mountain - wives, sisters, cousins and daughters. Just yesterday he got a call from the Iraqi city of Fallujah where a man belonging to ISIS offered the return of his daughter if he paid a ransom of $10,000. Again, his dramatic hand motions seemed to express more than his words ever could. It was a father's worse nightmare.
What if he did come up with money, could he even be sure he would get his daughter back? And wasn't paying ransoms just another way of funding more terrorism and enabling ISIS to kidnap more women and children. I could barely even imagine what condition she would be in if he were to ever get his daughter back in his arms again. The stories of suicide, shame and mutilation of those who have managed to win their freedom from the hands of ISIS are enough to make your stomach churn.
And as I stood there paralyzed in thought and emotion, my mind suddenly raced towards my own wife and children. What if it were my daughter, what would I, could I do to get her back. What shape would I be in emotional, physically, mentally. Something within me broke and I was overwhelmed with a sense of fear - as though I had just woken up from a nightmare, and yet I knew my family was at our home... safe. But for these Yezidi fathers, it was reality - the worst kind.
I just couldn't look at these men the same anymore, these men who had just spent a few hours putting up a bunch of tents for their new home.
Now, almost a year later these Yezidi families are still in great need - broken apart and broken-hearted, hundreds of miles from their homeland.
Thankfully here in Rwandz Camp they are in a safe place, sheltered by the mountains that surround the ancient town of Rwandz, the once capital of the Soran Empire.
Through the efforts of The Refuge Initiative we have been able to provide 70+ Yezidi families with shelter, food, medicine, electricity and water. But we desire to give them so much more. Our goal is to provide these families with the care they need to bring healing into their lives and restore hope for a brighter, independent future.
We all can make a difference, one family at a time. Just yesterday we began work an another small camp to accommodate a further 9 Yezidi families that are in desperate need of a place to live. Will you join us in praying for and supporting these Yezidi families? You can follow our efforts at The Refuge Initiative's Facebook page and make donations to the Iraq Emergency Fund here that directly funds our efforts to care for refugees and IDP's fleeing persecution.
Tim & Sarah Buxton (Elliana, Charlie & Lily)
Kurdistan, Iraq
Q&A with Billy Ray: Part 1
If you are wondering HOW and WHY World Orphans is so involved in Refugee Camp building right now, you're gonna want to watch this series of Q&A's with Billy Ray - WO Iraq Country Director. The first installment is only 3 minutes long...
Refuge in the Mountains - Yezidi Refuge Camp Begins
It was during the later part of December that we first made contact with a group of 16 Yezidi refugee families that had fled from their homes on Mt Sinjar and made their way here to the mountains. The snow-capped mountains that towered over their make-shift camp – a few half-finished concrete buildings – served as a constant reminder that winter was not going anywhere soon. They were cold, poor and very desperate. Since then we have provided them with warm winter clothes, kerosine oil for heating, food and just last month held a medical clinic to tend to their needs.
Fast forward to today... These dear families, along with another 44 Yezidi refugee families located just a few miles away, are now being asked to vacate their makeshift camps and find another place to live. We have grown to love these precious people and know that if it is within our power to help, then we must do something. We have since found a great plot of land in a farm valley on the outskirts of town - ideal for us to build a new refugee camp. The local mayor has donated the tents and so we are now making final preparations with the local government to care for these desperate Yezidi families.
Would you pray with us that God would continue to give us clear direction and the financial provision for the this next big endeavor. Pray too for these dear Yezidi families who have gone through so much. I was heartbroken as we listened to several men share how 15 of their daughters had been captured by ISIS and sold off as slaves or brides for jihadist fighters.
It would seem that everywhere we turn there is a tragic story, people who are in desperate situations. We are surrounded by great challenges, but also with the opportunity to respond with the love of Jesus – no strings attached. Sometimes it requires true faith... to give when you don't feel you have anything to offer. We are learning a lot about that kind of faith... You could say we are simply learning what it means to live the Christian life.